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Share this post with others!I got a call today from a friend going through an ugly breakup. The man she unconditionally loves is nothing but a toxic mess for her. I know what it’s like to be in a toxic relationship all too well…I did it for 5 years and when I hear other toxic relationship stories, it reminds me of how great of a choice I made to finally get out of mine. It’s never easy to leave someone you love even though you know they aren’t good for you, but, we have to find a way to get the strength to do what’s best and healthy for us. The biggest mistake I made after I was contacted by my husband’s mistresses was to continue to dig for more dirt. I looked up every phone number, social media site, and Googled every woman’s name that came my way. All that did was keep my heart hurting, the tears flowing, the anger brewing, and me stuck from moving forward. That is not only exhausting…it’s unhealthy and affects you in more ways than you fail to realize. The more I dug, the more I was devastated and couldn’t focus on moving […]
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